BLOG POST 36: Speak With Gentle Wisdom
Growing up, I believed in the power of expressing anger rather than bottling it up, thinking it was a bold reflection of my father's influence. My childhood was marked by an environment where the expression of anger was encouraged. I learned that holding back emotions was a sign of weakness, and asserting oneself through anger was a display of strength. This perception stayed with me into adulthood, shaping my interactions and responses.
However, time taught me a valuable lesson – that anger can erode relationships. Despite numerous acts of service, a single angry outburst can overshadow them all, inviting animosity into once-harmonious spaces.
As I navigated relationships, both personal and professional, I noticed a pattern. While expressing anger provided temporary relief, it often left a trail of broken connections and strained bonds. The realization dawned upon me that my approach to anger was not only affecting me but also the people I cared about.
This insight stems from observing my closest family members. I've witnessed individuals who internalize their anger contrasted with those who release it with every emotional surge. Through these experiences, I've come to appreciate the wisdom of the former approach. While expressing anger might offer momentary relief, its long-term consequences outweigh the initial satisfaction.
In contemplating the Proverbs 31 woman, known for her gentle wisdom, I've discovered the beauty of allowing emotions to settle before speaking. The transformation from spiteful words to expressions of love is remarkable. In my personal journey, I've experimented with releasing anger in private, allowing only words of wisdom and love to flow in the presence of others.
The journey from believing in the supremacy of expressing anger to understanding its repercussions has been transformative. Join me on this reflective journey as we explore the profound impact of managing anger on relationships and the art of transforming negative emotions into constructive expressions of love. Let's dive into the wisdom of the Proverbs 31 woman and unlock the power of thoughtful communication.
